Wednesday, October 15, 2008

comfort food

4 zebra cakes (2 packages), and 2 glasses of wine later I can now write about my evening this evening and not get re-frustrated. In all actuality it was not that bad since I endured it with my wonderful, beautiful cousins who I love so much. Thank you, Melanie and Michele for having patience with me, when I was so frustrated. I know you two can understand since you are also moms. Well...I went over to Mel's house this afternoon and her and the kids rode with me out to the east side of town to meet Michele and the girls for dinner at Pizza Hut and then go to my mom's book fair and get some new books for the kids. The evening was going so well, while Chloe and Mason entertained Liam in the backseat while singing the supercalifragalisticexpialadocious song to him the whole way there. He loved it. But the last five minutes of the drive to Pizza Hut the screaming started. The screaming ended, oh, about 45 minutes later when we left Pizza Hut. I'm sure the people eating around us really enjoyed it. Not knowing what was wrong with him, I fed him, even though he had just eaten just to make him be quiet. We quickly packed up our things, after paying the most terrible server ever, (NO tip was given. By me at least. Maybe kind of harsh, but in the end I was glad I didn't.) we went to leave to go to mom's book fair, BUT not before realizing I couldn't find my keys. We searched for about 15 minutes for my keys, and started coming up with other options to fit all 8 of us into Michele's Passat. But after Mel went into Pizza Hut for the THIRD time the look again, she asked if anyone had turned in keys. The most terrible pizza employees ever, said they did have some turned in. They just failed to mention that they had what we were obviously looking for, after being in there three different times moving chairs and tables around (This is why I was glad I didn't end up giving him a tip). Well we all finally left and went to Jackson...Liam decided this was a fine time to start screaming again. I asked Mason on the way over if he was glad that he doesn't have a little brother or sister. He replied "sort of". He is so adorable. You could tell he didn't want to hurt my feelings. So sweet. Well we got to the book fair and got new books for the kids. Liam got the rest of his bottle at this time, and was better after that. We then had a peaceful, quiet ride home back to the west side of town, but not before a couple potty incidents from Sophie. I know that I didn't help much, because I couldn't help but laugh after everything that had happened. Finally Liam was worn out and just went to sleep. Mel and I had a good laugh about how ridiculous this whole evening was on the way home. Mel said that this night was not supposed to happen, except for the moral support we were able to offer eachother :). So now that I write all this out I realize it doesn't sound like that horrible of a night, so I guess you just had to be there. Mel and Michele can vouch for me :). I am just glad that it all happened with all my wonderful cousins. Liam is so lucky to have those kids to grow up with. Well this day was not a very proud day for me as a mother. I felt like I was frustrated with Liam the whole entire day. I guess that those days will come, and its just how we deal with them that matters...which I admit today, was not very well. Now Liam is in bed, and I get to spend the rest of the evening with my husband and my comfort food :).

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

so glad i only tipped $1!!!!

since we had already used my extra outfit, sophie had to ride home with her little naked butt in the car seat.

what a night! (props to Chloe for staying calm during potty incident #1 since she was the only one there!)

Melanie-Pearl said...

i tipped 15% (usually do 20%).

i wonder if they didn't tell us about the keys because of you two el-cheapos! haha! it's a good thing i'm the one who asked!

it was a total blast for me even with all of the drama. our kids are SO cute!

Melanie-Pearl said...

ps)i don't think the waiter was just a terrible waiter...i think his head was full of rocks.

seriously! i'm certain the doctor slapped his mom when he was born.

Melanie-Pearl said...

pps)that was a supa mean thing to say, wasn't it? ;)

aunteem said...

no moms and no kids are perfect....life happens...everyone gets frustrated and mad. even at our own kids. though surely you don't remember me ever doign that? :) your a good momma. i love watching you with Liam...you and Jeremy both!

the fredin's said...

mel--you are only speaking the truth. it is not mean if it is true! at least not in this case. and HA! i didn't think of him not telling us about the keys cause we didn't tip him well (or at all..oops!)

Erika said...

My comfort food is Chinese and chocolate. We all have it. It is better to be open about it. Anyway, it sounds like you handled everything well considering the situation.
I will call you soon.

Anonymous said...

And now it is Grandma's turn!! I can think of nothing more frusting than having two babies screaming at the same time......Food for Thought!
They mean well and just need our love. You call me if you need some comfort!

Think of all those sweet smiles he gives you.
Grandma Butch

Anonymous said...

Kellie,
If he ever frustrates you that much again just bring him on over to our house! :)
He can play with our new mini pomeranian puppy!!
Miss you guys.
-Elizabeth